#BlogLife211 - I'm in love with.. Moiself *Valentine special*

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

I barely recall when this day is but because I've been on crazy shopping sprees, I'm paying attention to dates.

I just saw Asos was having a sale and promo code so decided to check it out 20% off and I shopped through Nectar.

I bought some fur lined boots as mine are really old. Just black ankle boots and I saw a wrap around purple top which looked really sweet.

I saved nearly £10 and that's not counting the retail price. The boots were previously £60 and went down to £20.

The top cost a lil bit more but if you work it out, it was less than £20 per item :D

I've never really purchased from them before. It's a strange half slutty, half hip, half odd selection.

However I feel like I haven't bought myself anything special for ages so this is my Valentine's present to myself.

They are due to arrive on or before this Thursday. I have got to wear something under the wrap top.

No free rounds of peekaboob!

Let's talk about the joys of being single...

1. I can buy a present for myself and don't have to splurge on a partner.

2. I'm not halting my productivity by wondering, what did he mean by that? Is he mad? I wonder if he took offence?

3. I can switch my phone off to charge or due to stress without some guy grilling me as to why it's off. Are you avoiding me? Why didn't you reply??

4. I'm not phone watching, curious about why I haven't heard back or if he'll call/text today?

5. I have me-time. Activities that will make me smile and feel positive.

6. I don't feel obligated to engage in dull conversations, with awkward pauses when I'm busy doing something for myself.

7. I feel genuinely weightless at times, that I don't have to deal with the abuse and criticisms of dating. 

I feel like I'm constantly waiting for the confessions or meanness to pour out. That is exhausting!!

8. I can be as foresty and hairy as I choose. I don't have to shave my legs+

9. I don't have to wear itchy, uncomfortable tights just to cinch everything in and give me a less wobbly shape.

9. I don't have to wear bruising heels that eventually make me limp and bleed.

10. I have peace of mind, knowing that I'm not going to be having huge, life draining, ongoing rows which screw my head up.

11. Ahhh I can take a nice relaxing breath without binding, pinchy fancy lingerie digging into my skin.

Whatever your relationship status is, half this day should be about you and your needs.

I guess my point is, even if you are single, so what. Romance yourself, do what pleases you give yourself those feelgood vibes.

Who says you need a partner for that? Love yourself!

A post I read cracked me up so much I just have to share it. It's old but I love it by Invisibly Me aka Caz :D

Here is the link...

https://invisiblyme.com/8-things-i-want-for-valentines-as-a-chronically-ill-person

Let me just leave you with something else to tickle your funny bones.. (Inspired by Googly woogly).

When someone asks why you are still single.....?

1. Food has always been my first love and nobody has since measured up.

2. I'm a playgirl and I'm flirting with a bunch of randoms that keep me busy.

3. I'm married to myself and 100% faithful, if I ever suspected cheating. I would be on a big timeout. No puddings for a week :(

4. Unlike you, I don't just latch on to any guy. I take my time and field offers. My inbox is bursting.

5. I value my freedom to do what I want, with whomever I want, without someone leeching onto me, taking my energy and peace.

6. I made a pact to be loyal to my television remote control and we agreed no threesomes.