#BlogLife903 - Chatty Chicks Watching Flicks 20 - Virgins TV Show

It's been a bit of a slow day brain wise. I wrote half a post and there didn't seem to be anything more to add so I thought this new show I've gotten into, let's make a post about that.

It's been a while since I did a Chatty Chicks, it's not limited to films, I just liked that it was catchy and rhymed ha.

Anyway, I don't want much reality shows. I like My Big Fat Fabulous Life because I want to see her evolve.

In the past I loved Celebrity Fit Club, Celebrity Wife Swap, lots of drama there, but sometimes a lil too over the top.

Anyway back to Virgins, I was looking for something new to unwind for the evening and I saw this and thought Hmm, I don't know..

But I clicked on it and it's surprisingly interesting, not too be unkind but some characters are more likeable than others.

It's about 4 adult virgins who haven't dated much and some are insecure and hesitant let's say.

It does bring up a lot of questions. When is the right time to say you're a virgin?

Most people seem to run a mile when that's divulged and you don't want to invest and then have them disappear.

Although me personally bringing up sexual things on a first date, sets a bad precedent, from then on it seems to become the main focus.

That's been my experience anyway. Then again, honesty is best right? It's a delicate matter.

On to the characters, I don't want to give too much away. First up the only male Alex.

He's 34yrs, living at home with the family and has social anxiety, he seems sweet, approachable, caring.

But that's going to be awkward bringing dates home...

Then there is Rhasha, she's 42yr and probably the bubbliest of them all.

I think she's outwardly confident and open to new experiences and dating but like Alex, deep down there's insecurities.

And also her wanting to explore something means, she's going to need a partner that she trusts implicitly....

What strikes me, is that they all assume sex will be this natural beautiful experience but you need to know, trust and care for the person and vice versa for it to be like that.

Sonali is 37yrs and is probably the shyest and most reserved out of the bunch.

I'm almost wondering if there's trauma or she's closeted because she seems stunted.

She definitely needs therapy or to start journaling about what's really going on because something is way off.

Deanne is 35yrs and is similar to Sonali. I don't know if she's been through something or is closeted.

She appears strong willed and very confident but inside I think she's a mess.

On the date she barely conversed at all. Even if you're not interested, I would still engage, I just wouldn't flirt, but I would be polite and ask questions.

She only wants highly attractive possibilities, in looks and body wise, these pretty boy males.

But those types are going to want experienced loose women and how can she compete?

Plus they will banter also, it's almost like she doesn't want to emotionally or intellectually connect, but why not???

Does she feel she won't measure up? I find that strange. Worse still it's like they are going to pick anyone and sleep with them.

There is a lot that goes in the head with intimacy, it's really not going to be that easy to just sleep with someone and expect them to treat you well or call you the next day.

That's why I hope they all take it slowly. I think if someone likes them enough, they'll ask questions, why they waited so long?

They won't rush them, but get to know them and take it step by step.

The dates and exercises have been interesting so far, go karting, selfie something, (not my preference).

And that workshop, where it was in a controlled atmosphere but they hugged, held hands, flirted a lil, was a good icebreaker.

I might add to this as the series moves on. Yeesh heart just stopped as I heard the loudest thud against my walls outside as a ball repeatedly slammed into it, as though the glass was gonna smash.

Ughhhhhh stress!!!

Last thing, for Sonali they recommended a sexual surrogate who is trained to put the inexperienced at ease.

That seems so extreme. Who would want their precious first time to be with someone like that??

I would have suggested to start reading trashy romance novels, to get into that romantic mindset.