I had a strong strong feeling something was up... I knew my instincts were correct.
The problem with projecting that you're cocky, is that eventually someone will come around and challenge you..
So L/J went so so quiet, when I brought up the voice chat, I gave discord as an option..
But he was panicking. I can tell, he wasn't talking and he's chatty, maybe more so than me.
I eventually, got tired of the games. All he had to say was that, he wasn't comfortable or he had changed his mind..
But the fact he wasn't saying anything, really put me off him. I mean coming across as some confident and self assured guy and 1 chat, makes you a complete mess?
Oh purlease. So I said calmly, if you don't want a voice chat, that's fine, I'll move on to someone else.
Then he started this whole bs conversation... What do I really want? Oh that's a shame, Oh don't threaten me, let's not fall out..
You won't find it easy to find someone like me.... Ha so I said randoms are easily replaceable and not to message me again.
I wanted to add, good luck replacing me, but I didn't. I thought I would try to be humble for once, ha.
But I'm just being honest and expressing my needs. A mixture of online chat and a voice chat is something I will eventually do.
It doesn't have to mean swapping numbers, discord has a call feature and you tap it and it uses your wifi I think, simple.
Now the real reason I eventually like to have a live chat, is because, it is so much harder to hide your personality.
You have to think on your feet and make the conversation flow and a lot of men can't do that.
He should have just said, I don't do calls, I'm more a texter and that would have raised concerns too.
But he was making out like a call was simple and he was willing.
What did he think I would forget about it? Too funny.
Sorry but chickens don't appeal to me. I like truly confident men.
I will bet money, that the next time he is on, he will message me like normal and pretend everything is fine.
To which I will ignore him. Ugh my nails keep chipping and now they are really short.
I just booked the Iceland order for tomorrow. There's this jelly and custard thingy, without the trifle cream or cake, looked fun.
Plus the mayonnaise is nearly done and I wanted some sort of flavourful dip to hold the sandwiches together..
I settled on Old El Paso mild salsa dip, it was between that and the guacamole.
But avocado dips rarely taste like avocado, so it's off-putting. I looked at the salsa ingredients, onion, garlic, green peppers, lemon, paprika and oregano..
Which all sounds great, what a blend. Actually aside from hummus or the garlic and onion..
I would have got tzatziki, which is garlic, lemon, cucumber, dil and olive oil but I would bypass that.
I'll let you know what I think of the salsa, if it's in stock, if not I'm screwed..