1. I lied about my age because I knew you wouldn't talk to me otherwise...
Congrats you found a way to justify fabrications! (I've had this lie more than once)
2. If you go out and dress as though you're on your way to meet me... You'll feel better..
Yea as if that's magically going to solve chronic pain, PTSD and confidence issues...
3. If you socialise more, you won't be so weird..
Who has the money and inclination? Not me that's for sure.
4. You should be more trusting..
This is our first chat. I don't know you from Adam..... And yet you want me to trust you? Ha, you're funny I'll give you that!
5. I don't understand you..
Sometimes I use quirky words instead of the normal types. I literally just said to one..
Have you munched yet? His reply was... I don't get it..
Honestly, take a moment to think about it. Use your brain to comprehend what it might mean..
I literally responded with.. I thought that was English, it means have you eaten?
I have no compulsion about shaming now. I'm not speaking Martian!!
(Oh yea, he didn't reply, which made me laugh).
6. You should seek therapy or do what I tell you, You need too.
Unlike you, making a snap judgement based on the lil I've divulged.
I don't tell people what to do, I might advise or give a bunch of suggestions, but ultimately it's their life and choice about what benefits them.
I am my own person and will decide what is in my own interests and therapy is not it!
7. Tell me about your character?
Why?! You only get to know someone through time. I can say anything, is it true or is it false? How would you tell?
Then he said.... Let me put it another way... What would your friends say about you?
I'm not an idiot. I understood the question!! I just think it's a pointless one to answer and I don't feel like selling myself.
Get to know me slowly and take me as I am. I don't feel the need to impress you!!
8. What should I do?
I've repeatedly given you advice, suggested things and yet you keep ignoring it and treating me like I have all the answers in the world.
Why don't you try and help yourself, Googly it or ask someone else, as my patience has run out.
I have no issue, assisting, if someone listens, but the minute you don't....
Forget it. It's different If the information I share isn't helpful that's separate.
Fair enough but if you're not going through steps to fix it yourself....
Why should I bother? I can't wave a magic wand and say Ta-da... You don't have to lift a finger...
SS to the rescue, poor baby!
