I only saw half of season 12 of My Big Fat Fabulous Life and now I'm watching it in full.
I'm now wondering if the reason Whitney mentions having kids so much is not personal preference but to please her Papa, who is determined to get Grandkids.
There were two episodes I was particularly interested in, the psychic one, even though I don't believe in it and knew it would be vague.
And the friends group gathering, in which she questions What's wrong with me?
I wanted to see if there would be a brutal Truth Hurts session.. I don't wish bad things upon her, I just think real friends should be able to admit, when you're behaviour isn't the best and that's why you're unappealing.
Just so that you can take it in, reflect upon it and not see it as a vicious attack but something you can learn from and evolve into someone mature and wholesome to be around.
I like what Jessica said, don't think of it in serious terms, like he'll be your future hubby, see it as casual dating.
Oof she saw shot Lenny down quickly, when he said You're definitely better than you were..
And then when he was alone, he admitted, she's too picky and expects love to fall in her lap without making any effort to find it.
She asks their opinions but is not interested in hearing it. She needs one a professional straight talking therapist and two a professional matchmaker.
The only view that matters to her is from her Papa but he's quite single minded, he wants her to be skinny, married and produce kids.
That's not going to happen without changes. Oh she did hire a matchmaker..
In season 13 which has just launched there's supposed to be significant weight loss, going from the rumours from a weight loss pill.
An example of thoughtlessness is that she doesn't want her Papa to sell her family home, even though that's what he wants, so she's renovating a downstairs room, to manipulate him into staying put.
Why hasn't she tried speed dating or some sort of singles mixer group meet and greet thingy?
Her negative qualities that her friends are too scared to mention are... That she's a bad listener.
Puts her needs above everyone else's. Is quite bossy and demanding, is not independent, always need to rope someone in to accompany her to places.
Doesn't ask if they are free, just demands they come along with her. Why can't she manage to do things by herself as a grown up?
Plus reddit is full of theories that debunk her truths, why not just be transparent?
You lose all credibility when you lie. She's making less and less effort to go places.
Could even be simple things like pampering treatments, grocery shopping, going for walks, some outdoor hobby, some purpose that she's passionate about.
That's what is missing. If she was serious about finding someone she would make more of an effort to get out there and mingle.
If she needs constant motivation to do things, it feels like she should hire a drill sergeant personal assistant to get more accomplished.
Outdoor activities, could be joining various dance classes. Learning new languages.
Trying out different cuisines, an arts and crafts workshop? The whole Kenny thing, I don't know if he was interested or not, the family did seem to be pressuring him to romance her..
Oh ok, I can't find the last three episodes of season 12, so onto 13 then.
Hmm, she was in London ok, teaching a class and then Tal was kind enough to pick her up from the airport, did she ask him a single thing about how he was doing?
Nope, hogged the conversation completely. Friendship is give and take, not just me me me.
It's about checking in and asking the person, Enough about me, tell me about what's new with you?
That's a lot weird Tal expected Whitney to cut Ashley out of her life because he had beef with her?
Not very mature, their friendship is a separate thing.
Once again this season she's talking about moving away? Didn't she try that before and it didn't work out?
What about her Papa that moved in with her or is temporarily there because of grief and declining health and/or loneliness?
The whole baby storyline is silly, to be a parent you have to be mature and selfless and she's neither of those.
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